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I'M NEW
WATCH
ABOUT
SERVICE INFORMATION
OUR VISION
OUR TEAM
Careers
RHYTHMS
WHAT WE BELIEVE
GET INVOLVED
NEXT STEPS
EVENTS
Madison Avenue Theater
LIFE GROUPS
SERVE
MEMBERSHIP
PRAYER
READING PLAN
WATER BAPTISM
The Internship
MINISTRIES
KIDS (NURSERY TO 5TH GRADE)
STUDENTS (GRADES 6-12)
YOUNG ADULTS (18-30)
MEN
WOMEN
MARRIAGE
SUPPORT & RECOVERY
OUTREACH & MISSION
ESPAÑOL
GIVE
MARRIAGE PAGES
Marriage Connect Form
Marriage Mentor Application
Marriage Mentoring Form
Marriage Prayer Form
Marriage Questionnaire
Premarital Mentoring Form
Premarital Mentoring Questionnaire
MARRIAGE MENTOR APPLICATION
Personal Information
Name
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First Name
Last Name
Birthdate
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Address
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Address 1
Address 2
City
State/Province
Zip/Postal Code
Country
Phone
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Alternate Phone
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Email
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Do you regularly attend weekend services at New Life (2 or more times per month)?
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*Pre-Marital + Marriage Mentors must be regular attenders of New Life Church.
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Marriage + Family
Have you ever been married before?
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Yes
No
If yes, how many times and how long for each marriage?
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When is your anniversary?
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Do you have children?
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Yes
No
If so, how many and what are their ages?
On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate your marriage, and why do you rate it as such?
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(1 being very unhealthy, 10 being very healthy)
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10
Please explain why you chose that number.
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Spiritual Orientation
Please define your beliefs and feelings on the following questions.
Are you a born again, follower of Jesus?
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Yes
No
When did you come to faith?
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Please describe your relationship with the Lord during this time in your life.
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In your own words, how does a person come to follow Jesus?
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Describe your belief about the Bible.
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Are you currently serving in other areas of ministry?
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Yes
No
If so, where?
Passion and Gift Alignment
Why do you want to mentor couples?
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Have you mentored before?
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Yes
No
If so, give examples of what you have done.
Have you been mentored before or during your marriage?
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Yes
No
What was it like, and how do you believe it benefited your marriage?
Are you currently being mentored by another couple?
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Yes
No
What mentoring training, if any, have you had in marriage, family life, lay counseling, etc.?
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What other ministry or work have you done together? How did it go? What did you learn?
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Looking at the list below, are there any relationship dynamics you would not be comfortable in mentoring?
First Marriages
Couples that will be blending families
Couples living together
Couples where one or both have been divorced
Unequally yoked couples
Cross-cultural relationships
Other (please explain below)
Other:
If you checked off any of the relationship dynamics listed above, what makes you uncomfortable in mentoring?
Which of the relationship dynamics above apply to your personal married experience?
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What do you believe are your spiritual gifts?
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What gifts or skills do you have that you believe would make you good at marriage mentoring?
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How much time can you regularly commit to marriage mentoring?
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What are potential obstacles we need to be aware of regarding your commitment?
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Personal Convictions
Please describe your biblical convictions about the following subject. Use Scripture references if possible.
Marriage:
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Leaving and Cleaving:
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Genesis 2:24
Divorce:
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Remarriage:
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Blended Families:
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Pre-Marital Sexual Activity:
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Extra-Marital Sexual Activities:
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Abortion:
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Cohabitation:
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Roles of Both Husband and Wife:
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Homosexuality:
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Addictions (Pornography):
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Addictions (Gambling, Alcohol, Substance):
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Financial Debt:
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References
Please list three references for us to contact (including a phone number or email if possible and state how you know them – friend, employer, employee, etc.). This is an important part of our application process, so please include the best way to contact them.
Reference #1
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Name / Relationship / Contact
Reference #2
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Name / Relationship / Contact
Reference #3
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Name / Relationship / Contact
Additional Questions
Have you ever been arrested, charged with, or convicted of a felony? (If so, please explain.)
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Do you have a history of substance abuse? (If so, please explain.)
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Do you have a history of either physical or sexual childhood abuse? (If so, please explain.)
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Signature
Please carefully review the Foursquare Statement of Faith attached below. If in agreement and attest to the validity of the information you enclosed, please e-sign and date below.
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Foursquare Statement of Faith